Tuesday, November 27, 2007

Owen Has No Sense of Self Preservation

He is standing 10 feet away from me as I talk an injured Max into rejoining his gymnastics class. My back is turned for such a short time and he is just watching a Baby Einstein video on a portable DVD player which another mother has brought for her daughter. As I turn back around what is it I yell? "Owen!" or "No!" or "Oh my God!". I don't exactly recall.

There in his hand, touching his lips is one of those little pretzel sandwich things. What is in the middle?

"He's allergic." I say pulling him to face me.

"It's just cheese!" the mother replies, her face concerned, contrite.

"He's allergic to milk." I say.

"I am so sorry!" she says "I think he only got part of the pretzel."

The sandwich does appear whole. No hives on Owen. Caught in the nick of time.

Honestly, even when Max was younger than two, he did not accept food from anyone but me. He did not pick up food and just eat it. I always thought he had such a great sense of self-preservation. He always just seemed to know. I swear some of his first words were "Read label?" It was a blessing for him to be so conscientious and a curse that food (sometimes even safe food) was considered the enemy.

Owen on the other hand has no sense of self-preservation. If it looks edible he is going to try it. Again, a blessing and a curse. A blessing that he will try and like so many foods, a curse because he doesn't seem to inherently know his boundaries like Max does.

3 comments:

Vicki said...

Wow--that sounds terrifying. It's really what nightmares are made of. Do you know if Owen would have a life threatening reaction? How does a dr. gauge that? So sorry to hear that you had such a scary situation. Have you thought about a sticker across his forehead? Just kidding but seriously, I am amazed that more people aren't aware of the dangers of offering another child food.

All Adither said...

Oh, yikes. I'm so grateful that, so far, my youngest doesn't have food allergies. She's more adventurous than her brother, too. My Max is very concerned with safety, etc.

I'm sure as Owen gets older and understands more, that part of it will get easier.

Ariel said...

I've been there! I swear sometimes I have to beat other moms away with a stick to keep them from feeding my kid. Then when I tell them she has a wheat allergy they look at me like I'm making it up because they've never heard of such a thing.